How do you know you are ready?
I believe a the most common sign that one is ready for development is stagnation; a feeling of stuckness or of not moving forward. This can look like a waking up to oneself and realizing that you have been on autopilot for years or it can look like the dread of doing the same thing day after day is so painful that you just can’t stand it anymore. Everything in life suffers when our vision of it is too small.
A lack of development can breed questions like “What happened to my life? Where did it go?” “Why am I even here?” “What do I even want anymore? I can’t even tell.” “Am I happy? I might not even know what that feels like.” “How come nothing moves me? I feel numb.” These questions are seeds towards a more expanded vision for oneself and they are good signs because it means you are ready to widen your aperture, something inside of you is seeking more and perhaps ready for life to enliven you again. This is where development starts and leads us to vitality.
Vitality is the opposite of stagnation and is defined as “a capacity to live and develop” but I see vitality as an action to seek out what makes us feel most alive! Developmental Coaching then is the access point for the man who is seeking more… more intimacy with himself and others, more connection to his sense of self, more in touch with his desires, meaning and purpose and definitely more of an appetite to feel inspired by life itself. This is nothing short of a transformational experience, you will not leave the same man you came to me as.
What to expect
Introspection
Development is deeply personal and so the first step is to dive into yourself and see what we find. We will explore patterns, beliefs, and experiences shaping your current challenges and uncover what truly matters to you. Getting this the lay of the land helps us co-creatively map out the path ahead.
Direction
Development is all about direction and creating a path from point A to point B. Once we explore your inner world, we can start defining goals, identifying obstacles and taking actual steps towards achieving those goals.
Change
I'm a strong believer in experiential learning and that practice makes perfect. I will collaborate with you on having direct experiences with your goals to create developmental change that you can palpably feel through time and integrating those experiences within the session space.
Knowledge
The mighty phrase "knowledge is power" stands tall and true here as the path to wisdom is the path of learning. Once you have been introspective, identified goals, taken steps towards them, you develop over time and you walk away with newfound wisdom and the power to utilize it going foward.
It is your journey
I am just a guide to support you along the way.
My focus is to dive into you and become deeply curious. My process includes existential discovery, passionate questions, and inspiring direction to help you meet the life you want to be living.
Book a free discovery call with me to learn more!
